Yesterday and Today

Yesterday was emotional, understandably.  Our family said goodbye to Pearl.  It was a beautiful service and everyone in my family was in attendance with the exception of Dennis, my sister Judy's boy.  

As we were at the lunch prior to going to the cemetery, my brother and I both made the comment to family that this is a prime example of why the Schulz Oktoberfest (reunion) needs to keep happening..  Pearl died 3 weeks after the last Oktoberfest.  You just never know what tomorrow holds.  I'm hoping that my nieces and nephews understand that and will make more of an effort to attend.

Afterward we went to my brother's house for a small gathering of Pearl's siblings and mine.  There was a ton of food, warm memories of Pearl, laughter and tears.  Ron seemed to be holding up well but he had people around to distract his mind from the thoughts and emotions.  Those will come when the house is quiet and it's just him.  I will be contacting him every couple of days and I foresee several trips to Bismarck to see him (Lisa and Brad too).   (Maybe do some shopping too).  :)

Today I took another bereavement day.  I went to the gym and worked out with my trainer this morning.  The last thing I wanted to do was workout. From past experience, I knew I needed to work out.  I told that to Nick (trainer), he simply nodded and said "therapy."  Yes, yes it is.





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Rob said…
For sure regular family gatherings are very important. Sadly our family members are spread all across Canada so it seems like the only time that (almost) everyone gets together is at funerals. And so it goes, eh?
November 18, 2016 at 5:46 PM
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