Relax

What does it mean?   The definition I found online says,
  • to become or to cause (something) to become less tense, tight, or stiff
  • : to stop feeling nervous or worried
  • : to spend time resting or doing something enjoyable especially after you have been doing work.

    I would suppose that it means different things to different people. Some might think to relax is to lay on the couch, watching a program or movie, or reading a book.  Others might find gardening, playing music or taking a walk.  Some may find being with others as relaxing.

    Me?  I tend to have difficulty sitting still and focusing.  So I need something physical to help me get out of my mind.  I like to bike ride, go to the gym, or even do housework.  (I know, right?!).

    Yesterday, I had a very relaxing day with my nephew, Blaine.  I took him out for lunch and then for a drive.  We were cruising with the sunroof open, music cranked through the speakers, singing to our favorite song, and enjoying the scenery as we drove.   Spending time with Blaine always makes me smile.  And yesterday, it was relaxing.  We talked a lot - nothing specific at all.  When we drove through a part of town in which he used to live, he stated that he missed living in that area but "sometimes you just need to move on."   So very true Blaine.  When you listen to him....really listen...he has a very unique way of looking at things.  A lot of people do not give him the credit that he deserves.   I'm glad that he is relaxed enough with me that he can open up and be his true self.

    I guess we were both relaxed yesterday.  


      

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