Sign of Disrespect
Those of you know me well, know that I like to be on time, preferably early whenever possible. I make no secret of that.
I consider it to be "stealing" time from the other person when I am late for a meeting, event, etc. In my mind, it shows the other people, "You are unimportant to me" or "My time is worth more than yours." It, to me, is a sign of disrespect.
I work with an individual who is a very type A person. It's all about her/him.. Most times I can handle them because I know what they're about.
But today got to me.
This person scheduled an appointment/meeting at a set time with another individual. Type A person was notified three ...count it...THREE... times that their meeting individual had arrived.
First it was "I'm on my way," followed by, "I'll be there in 5 minutes," ending with, "Ask if I can reschedule."
By this time it's 25 minutes past the scheduled/arranged meeting time.
Type A individual did finally arrive full of apologies and explanations to the person who had been waiting.
But I ask you.... if you were the one waiting for 25 minutes, what would your impression of Type A be? How would you feel?
Yeah, I thought so. Me too.
I would've walked out after 10 minutes.
I consider it to be "stealing" time from the other person when I am late for a meeting, event, etc. In my mind, it shows the other people, "You are unimportant to me" or "My time is worth more than yours." It, to me, is a sign of disrespect.
I work with an individual who is a very type A person. It's all about her/him.. Most times I can handle them because I know what they're about.
But today got to me.
This person scheduled an appointment/meeting at a set time with another individual. Type A person was notified three ...count it...THREE... times that their meeting individual had arrived.
First it was "I'm on my way," followed by, "I'll be there in 5 minutes," ending with, "Ask if I can reschedule."
By this time it's 25 minutes past the scheduled/arranged meeting time.
Type A individual did finally arrive full of apologies and explanations to the person who had been waiting.
But I ask you.... if you were the one waiting for 25 minutes, what would your impression of Type A be? How would you feel?
Yeah, I thought so. Me too.
I would've walked out after 10 minutes.
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