I always struggle with some people's work ethic, or lack thereof. I've always been raised with the mindset that if there is work to be done, and you can do it....you do it.  You don't put it off until later (unless it's dusting or folding clothes!), you don't wait for 'someone else to do it', and you certainly do not say "that's not my job".  None of those flew around my father and mother and it certainly does not fly with me.  

Society has gotten lazy. No one seems to want to work or put forth an effort to even appear to work.  It's disheartening.  It's sad and pathetic. Not to mention frustrating as hell for those of us who do the work.  Perhaps the lazy are the smart ones?  They know how to get out of work by portraying laziness so the hustlers of the world get bent out of shape and say "fuck it! I'll just go ahead and do it myself.".   

I've seen it in my work environment, which is a medium security prison.  Laziness and lack of respect for the job is scary.....it's dangerous.  And yet, we have officers that skip doing rounds (which are required) on time, they can't accurately perform count of inmates (because they're lazy and/or probably do not know how to count), exerting themself to go above and beyond what is required of them is unheard of in their realm.   These are the people that are supposed to have my back when I walk on a floor with 97 male inmates; Hardly a comforting thought.  

I don't remember it being this bad 10-15 years ago.  What changed in society to make it socially and morally acceptable to be lazy?   Did my parent's generation think these things when they were my age?  Is it a generational thing?  

And what's even more scary is this:  The people who work the hardest, for the least pay, are often immigrants here on a work Visa or (yes, I'm going to say it)....illegal immigrants; all of which Trump wants to deport.    Bet the Maga Trumpers (who generally think in the terms of $$ in their wallet) wasn't thinking about the cost of fruits and vegetables rising astronomically due to the shortage or farm laborers trying to get crops off the field.   

You sure as hell don't see white people out there picking vegetables and fruits; some can't be bothered to even do the jobs that they have.  

I'm mad.  And everyone in 'Merica should be scared as hell regarding the direction this country is taking.

Surprise!

 After an extended time away, I'm back to writing on my blog...well, at least until I drop off the face of blogland again.  

I cannot seem to find the time to write consistently.  I have plenty of content, I mean my life is horribly busy so I should have plenty to write about. I always have something to say (just ask the people around me). 

Today's January 2nd, 2025.  Unbelievable.  

I'm on annual leave today and tomorrow.  After a busy Christmas, it felt like my mind and body needed to downshift a bit.   I don't have anything spectacularly fun planned, just resetting and relaxation.  And music.  And a book.  And the gym. (Always the gym). 

So what have I been up to? 

• I've been obsessed with Taylor Swift and the Eras Tour
• Literally combing the interweb for videos, pictures, alllll things Taylor
• No, I didn't go to her concert. But I have watched it on Disney like 5 times.
• Favorite Song, "Style"
• New favorite non-Eras Tour song, "You're in Love"
• It's winter, which means that I'm driving Blaine around since he parked his scooter.
• Sad note, he fell on the ice yesterday and injured his ankle badly.
• Visit to the Orthopedic Dr tomorrow to determine if hairline fracture or small broken bone.  He's off work for at least a week, longer if it's broken.
• My supervisor retired in May. (Not sad about that).
• I've taken on a supervisory/mentor role in the office.
• Cross training staff is paramount, time consuming, but worth it. 
• I just finished up 25 years at the prison. I'm 62 and probably have another 2-3 years in me. lol
• Health is good
• I did retire from teaching yoga though. I just have too much going on and it's been like 20 years that I've held space for my students.  It's time to hold space for me. Yes, I'm selfish!
• Tom is good, stubborn but good. 
• Family is good
• I'm laughing at all the Maga Trumpsters who are getting what they voted for (idiots).
• Unfortunately, it also means I'm getting what they voted for.
• Life is good.
• I'm sure there's more but it's past my 62 yr old bedtime and I'm tired. LOL

March 24, 2024

It's a wintery day here in ND.   Luckily what had been predicted has been downgraded.   I have to say that I'm grateful for a little downtime.   I've been in a bit of a funk lately and I'm not sure why.  Maybe because I'm in the limbo of seasons.  I'm anxious to be outdoors, biking and gardening.  I'm ready for the sunshine on my face and the breeze on my shoulders.   With those things comes the hustle and bustle; longer days, jam packed nights and weekends.  Time goes too fast as it is.  I mean, here we are at the end of March when it seems like yesterday was New Years.   Surely, I cannot be the only one who wants the world to stop spinning so quickly?

Next weekend I'll be in sunny Arizona visiting (one of) my best friend, Donna.   She retired 2 years ago on her birthday, March 31st.  Last year the other 1/3 of the Three Amigos (Vickie) and I were supposed to visit her on her birthday.  Due to a winter blizzard, we never made it.  This year, Vickie had a hip replacement two weeks ago.  So here I am, playing the odds that there won't be another winter storm and booked a solo trip to leave Friday.   Luckily the weather shouldn't be an issue - fingers crossed. :)

I'll be gone over Easter though, which will leave Tom home alone.  He'll be in good hands as our nephew Robert is planning to make prime rib for his girls and Tom.  Tom's worried about me traveling alone, I reassured him I was taking a direct flight from Fargo into Mesa, bypassing Denver.  I plan on enjoying a day of going and doing all the things - then chilling with my bestie on her patio and/or in the pool. 

 I am definitely looking forward to chilling.   There are some things coming down the pike that I need to figure out (nothing in my personal life, peeps - so relax!).  Hopefully the time away from work will give me the answers that I'm searching for.  

                                    

Sunday morning observations of Working Superwoman: 1️⃣ the morning after the Spring forward time change is slow. I gave my mind and body some grace this morning. No gym, no projects...just quiet and reflection.2️⃣I know people try to be helpful by giving unsolicited advice...the "YOU should do it like this" or "YOU need to do this because it worked for me when I did it that way."Stop using the word "YOU need" or "YOU should". It's telling the person they're failing or not good enough in their efforts. No one needs to feel inferior. Perhaps think about saying words like "I know it's hard, keep going" or "I had great success when I did (insert)." Let  them absorb the information and make the decision to do what is best for them. Let them be the boss of their life.3️⃣Everyone has a battle; be nice!.4️⃣I guarantee you that for every time you talk about someone or criticize them...someone is doing the same about you.5️⃣It's perfectly fine to walk away from people or situations without an explanation 6️⃣A person's religious or political beliefs are theirs and theirs alone.7️⃣Life is hard, people. Most of us are trying to survive our own shit without others trying to pile theirs on top of it. 8️⃣Celebrate each other's victories and support each other's struggles 9️⃣Surround yourself with people who will do both in #8 and have your best interests at heart. And always remember #5. 🔟Be unapologetic and your true authentic self!  What other people think of you is non of your business.  Remember, "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"