Sunday morning observations of Working Superwoman: 1️⃣ the morning after the Spring forward time change is slow. I gave my mind and body some grace this morning. No gym, no projects...just quiet and reflection.2️⃣I know people try to be helpful by giving unsolicited advice...the "YOU should do it like this" or "YOU need to do this because it worked for me when I did it that way."Stop using the word "YOU need" or "YOU should". It's telling the person they're failing or not good enough in their efforts. No one needs to feel inferior. Perhaps think about saying words like "I know it's hard, keep going" or "I had great success when I did (insert)." Let them absorb the information and make the decision to do what is best for them. Let them be the boss of their life.3️⃣Everyone has a battle; be nice!.4️⃣I guarantee you that for every time you talk about someone or criticize them...someone is doing the same about you.5️⃣It's perfectly fine to walk away from people or situations without an explanation 6️⃣A person's religious or political beliefs are theirs and theirs alone.7️⃣Life is hard, people. Most of us are trying to survive our own shit without others trying to pile theirs on top of it. 8️⃣Celebrate each other's victories and support each other's struggles 9️⃣Surround yourself with people who will do both in #8 and have your best interests at heart. And always remember #5. 🔟Be unapologetic and your true authentic self! What other people think of you is non of your business. Remember, "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
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I'm trying not to breaking one of my hard and fast rules - do not talk politics or religion . But for the love of all things holy, I cannot not comment on the total shit show of last nights presidential debate. America, we're screwed! I want the chance to write in a candidate. I think anyone would be a better option than the two we have right now. UGGGHHHH! I'm soooooo tired of the bickering . right vs. left. I'm tired of the media, I'm tired of black lives matter (ALL LIVES MATTER, shit heads!), cop kiilings, riots and the disrespect and downright hatred of the flag, of our Country! I'm scared for everyone concerned. I feel the anger, the despair, the lack of consideration and respect - not only for the country -but for humanity . I heard Savanna Guthrie , NBC Today Show, say that Social Media was the cesspool of society." I couldn't have said it bet...
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It's great to read another blog posting from you here.
You know you really should just ignore all those around you who say stuff like "YOU should" or "YOU need" 😏
Did you happen to watch the Oscar awards last night where there was an (almost) naked guy giving out the award for Best Costume Design? Too funny !!! 😁