Can we talk about this?
Hmmm...that would be a ..NO? Ever had someone start out a conversation with "Can we talk?" and the first thing that comes to your mind is, "OH crap!" Ya, me too. Hate it when that happens. As you're listening to the person begin their conversation, your mind wanders off to all the possibilities of what "could be wrong." You're so wrapped up in your personal mind conversation that you aren't even listening to them speak...that is, until you hear the words, "so you're ok with it then?" Ya....that would be "Oh crap" moment #2. What do you say. Yes? without being totally aware of what you are agreeing to? I urge you to rethinkg your strategy! I mean, seriously! You could've just agreed to donate your left kidney to someone's Uncle Bob who smokes three paks of cigs a day, has three teeth in his mouth (and two of them are crooked), and can't see his feet cuz his tummy hangs to his knees. ...